▽The New York Times Magazine - Features - Columns - Style - The New York Times ●11/21 20:49 The EthicistWas I Right to Chide the Man Who Complimented My Daughter-in-Law?The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on the kinds of remarks strangers sometimes make about women’s looks.By Kwame Anthony AppiahCreditIllustrations by Tomi UmEatThe Simple Trick That Makes Vegetables Their Best SelvesUse the technique behind these butter-poached carrots to get the mushroomiest mushrooms or the green-